My way of thinking is: I meet you, I'm iffy about you. You do something to show that I can trust you, and I trust you completely and whole heartily. You do something to break that trust I had in you, it is going to take so much to get it back.
Lying is one thing I do not stand for. Many of my relationships ended because they lied to me and I could not look them in the face again and know for sure they were not lying to me. When you lie, it makes people question everything you say, and wonder, "Why would they lie about that?" It makes me question their actions, "Are they doing this just to show they are trustworthy once more, or is this something they would normally do?"
Saying, "I'm sorry" is not enough. "I'm sorry" are just words you say, admitting you did wrong. That does not show me you care about the actions you took. That does not show me that you truly care and will never do it again. It does not show me that you understand why I hate lying. It does not show me anything other than you said 2 words doing the bare minimum trying to make me feel better. In my book, saying "I'm sorry" is not even half a step higher than doing nothing about your mistake.
That is just who I am, take it or leave it.
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